Episode 34
Ottawa Blues for Youth: A Lifeline in Every Lyric
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Ottawa Blues for Youth: A Lifeline in Every Lyric
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Ottawa Blues for Youth: A Lifeline in Every Lyric
💥 What We Talk About:
- Why music makes sense for mental health
- The importance of local, community-driven support
- How the YST intervention works
- Lived experience and lived courage
- What you can do to make a difference
🔗 How to Connect with Guests:
- Event Site: ottawabluesforyouth.com
- Dr. Zach Kaminsky: via The Royal Ottawa
- Anita Manley: Contact via event site
📞 If You’re in Crisis
Text 988 in North America for 24/7 support.
Outside North America? Reach out to your local suicide prevention or mental health helpline.
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Anita Manley
Anita Manley is a mental health advocate, advisor, fundraiser, blogger, and peer facilitator. At The Royal, she has volunteered as a peer supporter for the women's mental health program from 2012-2024, was a member of the Client Advisory Council for five years, former editor of The Client's Voice newsletter and frequently shares her story with many audiences. Anita represented The Royal as co-chair of the Champlain LHIN PFAC and as a patient advisor for the resource development advisory group at Health Quality Ontario. Previously, Anita was a patient advisor for the Champlain Peer Network, The Ottawa Hospital Mental Health Community Advisory Committee, and a board member for Ottawa branch of the Canadian Mental Health Association.
Anita was recognized as one of the ‘Faces of Mental Illness’ campaign with CAMIMH; a recipient of The Royal’s 2015 Inspiration Award; a ‘Top 40 for 40’ year anniversary of The Royal Foundation; and a notable ‘Adult Hero’ on Silken Laumann’s website, Unsinkable.
Anita served as a Board Trustee at The Royal from June 2021 – June 2023.
She holds a BA in communications from Carleton University and is an instructor of public speaking and leadership courses with Christopher’s Leadership in Ottawa. Anita also continues to facilitate a journaling group she co-founded in 2013, at PLEO.
Link & Socials
Instagram (Personal)
Instagram (Art)
Facebook (Art Page)
Blog:
Dr Zachary Kaminsky
Dr. Zachary Kaminsky is a leading expert in suicide prevention who focuses on developing innovative interventions. His research has been instrumental in understanding the biological factors behind suicidal behavior. He advocates for a multi-faceted approach to crisis response, such as the Youth Nominated Support Team intervention. This model empowers a network of trained individuals—including family, friends, and community members—to act as a nominated support team for at-risk individuals. This proactive and collaborative strategy is a cornerstone of his vision for a more effective and compassionate suicide prevention system.
Links & Social Media
University of Ottawa Faculty of Medicine
Dr Kaminsky Associate Professor in Cellular & Molecular Medicine at uOttawa, based at The Royal’s IMHR
Royal Ottawa Institute of Mental Health Research (IMHR)
Dr Kaminsky is the DIFD Mach‑Gaensslen Chair in Suicide Prevention Research, director of the Suicide Prevention Research Unit, and instrumental in developing predictive algorithms using social media signals.
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5th Annual All-Star Musical Fundraiser, Ottawa Blues for Youth
Saturday, September 20 at the Gladstone Theatre doors at 6 PM
Sunday, September 21 at Irene's Pub doors at 2 PM
Tickets on sale now ottawabluesforyouth.com
Our Mission and Values: About — Ottawa Blues For Youth
About the event: About — Ottawa Blues For Youth
About the Youth Nominated Support Team: About — Ottawa Blues For Youth
We have raised more than $116,000 over the past 4 years in support of Youth Mental Health.
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Elaine Lindsay
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When moving forward seems too much.
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:When you feel totally out of touch
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:the door you find yourself.
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:Curled on the floor.
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:The thoughts swirl around
all jumbled and messed.
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:Why is this brain so darkly obsessed?
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:I have secrets I've never confessed.
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:Haven't told the soul,
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:I'm depressed.
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:A gentle whisper through the pain.
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:Remember rainbows follow rain..
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:Breathe deeply.
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:Hold on tight.
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:Your hope will return
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:shining.
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:bright
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:In forgiveness, peace will last.
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:You matter deeply,
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:You are not alone.
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:Reach out, let your strength be shown.
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:@TheDarkPollyanna: Hello.
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:Hello.
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:It's so good to be back.
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:I'm Elaine Lindsay the Dark Pollyanna.
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:This is suicide Zen forgiveness
and I am really thrilled
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:today to bring you a little.
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:A bit of a change in routine.
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:We're going to look at an event that's
coming up with Anita Manley and Dr.
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:Zachary Kaminski.
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:Thank you both for joining me today.
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:Anita Manley: Thank you for having us.
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:Dr Zach Kaminsky: Thanks so much.
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:@TheDarkPollyanna: We it's not
often I get to show off things
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:right here in Ottawa, Canada.
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:So this is going to be all about
the Ottawa Blues for Youth.
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:We're going to talk about the upcoming
event, mark the calendars September
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:20th and 21st, and we have all the
deets for you right here as usual.
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:I'm gonna pass things off to my guests
so they can tell you what's what,
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:and we're just gonna dive right in.
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:Why don't you tell us what exactly
is Ottawa Blues for Youth and.
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:Where did it start?
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:Anita Manley: Oh, thanks
Elaine, very much.
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:So this is our fifth annual Ottawa Blues
for Youth fundraiser presented by Be Lets
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:Talk and yeah, it started just in 2020.
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:During the Pandemic, I've always
wanted to do a fundraiser for mental
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:health and a musical fundraiser
specifically for mental health.
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:And I had.
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:Big plans.
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:But I decided to start small and I, at the
time, I had a family member who was really
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:big into the Ottawa Blues music scene.
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:A very well-known local band who since
moved to Toronto the Jesse Green Band
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:and, so from that, I knew a lot of
blues musicians and and I go to a local
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:establishment, Irene's Pub, a lot on
their blues night on Thursday night.
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:So I just decided on the name
Ottawa Blues for Youth and I
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:decided to bring blues musicians.
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:Together to perform and to raise money
for youth mental health through the Royal.
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:I'm a longtime volunteer at The Royal.
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:I don't volunteer there anymore,
but I was a longtime volunteer for
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:over 13 years and I just and the
yal saved my life back in, in:
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:and I was there for seven months.
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:So I decided to give back to the
institution that helped to save me.
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:@TheDarkPollyanna: Oh,
one, thank you very much.
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:That is awesome.
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:Thank the Royal for saving you and yeah.
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:Blues does an awful lot, I
believe, for mental health.
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:I'm heartening back to
last summer and jelly roll,
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:which I thought was pretty
incredible for those who.
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:Maybe didn't hear me lamenting the
fact that I couldn't get there.
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:Last year, jelly Roll came to Ottawa
Blues Fest and he took a tour of the
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:Royal, which I thought was pretty
incredible to take the time to go.
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:And I know he interacted with some
patients and with some of the staff.
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:And everything I heard
was super, super positive.
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:Anita Manley: Yeah, music has this way
of, re releasing energy, positive energy
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:and and lifting our spirits, and so I
just really find a musical fundraiser
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:to fit well with raising money for.
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:Mental health.
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:So over the last four years,
we've raised over 116,000.
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:And yeah, this year we've grown
to a bigger location because we
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:outgrew Irene's Pub, which could
all, the capacity was only a hundred.
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:So now we're at the Gladstone Theater
on , Saturday, September 20th, and,
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:yeah, it seats 223 people, so it's
more than doubled our capacity.
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:And there's room for dancing.
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:The sound is amazing.
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:And it features Atlanta j
Brown, and the JW Jones Band.
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:So we're really excited to have them.
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:And it also features a very
exciting, silent auction.
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:And yeah oh did you wanna say something?
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:Yeah,
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:@TheDarkPollyanna: I was just, I was
waiting for you to say and I also heard
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:there would be a doctor in the house.
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:Anita Manley: Oh yes.
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:Dr.
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:Kaminski, who is here with us
today he will be our guest speaker,
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:but not only that, he will also
be performing an electric violin
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:solo and we always appreciate his
tremendous support at the event.
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:But the money goes to the economic
support team and maybe Dr.
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:Kaminsky can tell us more about that.
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:Dr Zach Kaminsky: Sure.
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:Yeah.
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:And of course it's always a
pleasure to get, to play a bit
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:at the beginning of the event.
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:But really the highlight is in
sharing this really exciting
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:intervention called the Youth
Nominated Support Team Intervention.
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:It's a an intervention that we're running.
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:Here in Ottawa for local Ottawa youth.
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:And effectively what it is we know
that the time after being discharged
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:from hospital is a particularly
risky time for suicide in general.
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:Periods of transition are, but
when one leaves care and is sort.
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:Out without care, they can be
at risk of elevated suicidal
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:crisis, suicidal thought.
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:And years ago, actually during the
pandemic one of the members of of
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:suicide prevention, Ottawa was a
mom with lived experience and she'd
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:had a son I believe, who had been
in and out of hospital systems.
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:And she came across this study on
the youth nominated support team
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:intervention, and said, Hey, this might
be perfect to try to implement in Ottawa.
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:So she brought it to those of us at
Suicide Prevention Ottawa, which is just
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:a network of hospitals and youth Services
Bureau, PLEO all the sort of area agencies
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:interested in eliminating suicide.
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:And we basically tried to get
this up and running and have
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:been able to do that with.
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:The help and with the funds from the
Ottawa Blues for Youth effectively.
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:What it does is when youth leave
hospital, they are connected by this
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:intervention to a team that they nominate
of caring adults, caring supporters.
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:It's a bit structured, but
effectively they reach out over a
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:period of time and it really works.
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:We see that it's reducing
suicidal thought by six weeks
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:and it is eliminating people's.
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:Desire to die by suicide.
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:It's taking folks who have had a
plan to die by suicide and they
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:report no longer having a plan.
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:So it's really exciting to, to have
something that is being run here
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:in Ottawa, locally supported in
Ottawa by Ottawa Blues for Youth.
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:That's I'm happy to, of course, expand
on anything that you'd be interested
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:in, but that's what it is in short.
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:Anita Manley: Yeah, and I just wanted
to let you know, Elaine, that as Zach
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:said, it's supported by Ottawa Blues for
Youth, but currently that we Ottawa Blues
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:for Youth are the only source of funding
for this youth nominated support team.
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:If it wasn't a.
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:For this event, then there would be, they
would have to go elsewhere for funding.
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:And it co I heard recently a
report that it costs:
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:$1,500 per youth per year.
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:And if we sell out this year at
both events, the after party on
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:Sunday, September 21st as well
at Irene's Pub, including the
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:Gladstone Theater on September 20th.
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:If we sell out, we'll make, over $12,000.
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:So that will help just with
ticket sales that will help us
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:save the lives of 10 local teens.
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:Yeah, we're really encouraging
people to buy tickets and we do
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:have some big sponsors as well.
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:@TheDarkPollyanna: Okay.
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:I'm just going to
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:change one thing you just said.
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:When you sell out, you are going
to be able to help 10 teams.
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:Anita Manley: Okay.
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:@TheDarkPollyanna: So fine.
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:Anita Manley: Just should I say that or
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:@TheDarkPollyanna: I just did?
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:You can reiterate it for Absolutely.
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:Anita Manley: Okay.
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:Yeah.
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:Powerful when we sell out yeah.
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:@TheDarkPollyanna: So they don't
call me Pollyanna for nothing.
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:Maybe a little dark but the
Pollyanna bit is still winning.
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:I love the concept.
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:I'm shocked that it's the only
thing that funds that group.
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:Because to me, that is
so incredibly important.
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:I come from a time where
there was nothing for us.
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:Nothing.
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:We didn't know what to do.
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:We didn't understand
what was happening and.
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:As a teenager and through my twenties
as I lost more and more people,
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:there was nowhere for us to turn.
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:It was for one so long ago.
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:I'll be 70 years old this year, so it was
quite a while ago, but it is uplifting
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:to see what's happening now, to see
everything that the Royal has put in place
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:and to see all that you, Anita and others
are trying to do in terms of fundraising
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:to work on suicide prevention Dr.
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:Kaminsky, can you either give
us a little idea of what sort
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:of research you are doing and.
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:Both of you maybe let me know
where you think there's an avenue
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:that perhaps people in Ottawa
can step up and do a little more.
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:Dr Zach Kaminsky: Yeah.
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:I think, understanding and evaluating
this intervention is of course, key
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:for what we're talking about today
and when it comes , to stepping up.
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:And what can be done.
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:Really the crux of this intervention
and why we see it's working
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:is it, it's about connection.
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:We know that and some of the other
research I've done supports this.
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:For example, we've looked on social media.
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:We've looked at those folks who have
tweeted back, on social media with
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:suicidal thought, and we've also looked
at the people that respond to them, and we
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:actually see something really interesting.
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:And what that is that we can
track people's suicide trajectory
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:over time after they put that out
there, after they say that they're
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:thinking about killing themselves.
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:And we can see those people
that are getting better and
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:those people who aren't.
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:And what we see is pretty intuitive.
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:It makes sense, but it's always
nice to see it in numbers.
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:And that is that the people who
have responses, the people who have
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:been connected, they do better.
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:The people who had
people reach out to them.
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:So we can step up just
by talking about suicide.
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:We can step up.
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:By asking about suicide,
don't be afraid to ask.
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:It's a myth, in fact, that
asking about suicide will cause
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:someone to think about it.
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:In fact, it can open up a conversation
that can lead people to seek help.
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:And, this youth nominate
support, team intervention.
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:It's it's really just about connecting
people with those who may not have known.
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:That a youth was in distress may not have
known that they could just by reaching
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:out consistently and being in touch,
that would help with treatment adherence.
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:It would help with if someone was in
crisis reaching out to, to enact a safety
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:plan, to get back into hospital if.
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:Necessary.
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:It's supported by big data in our social
media artificial intelligence work.
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:All of this points to this simple fact
that connection is really important.
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:And, you can step up by connecting,
by coming to Ottawa Blues for
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:Youth that will help us really fund
keeping this intervention going.
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:It will help.
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:Effectively bring this to the forefront.
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:Let everyone know that it's important.
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:And I would say if you're ever
nominated you can step up and choose
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:to be part of the team because we do
see that it really makes a difference.
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:Yeah.
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:So maybe I'll stop.
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:Yeah.
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:Anita Manley: So I just wanted to say
the Youth Nominated Support team, and I'm
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:not sure if Zach mentioned this, I, is
that what happens is the youth at risk
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:through the support team does nominate.
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:Three to four adults.
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:It could be a parent, it could be
a religious leader, it could be a
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:coach, it could be an older sibling
anywhere, anyone that they trust in
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:their network and they nominate them.
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:And then what happens is these peers
are trained on how to help and support
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:this youth through their suicide.
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:Ideation, et cetera, to help support them.
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:And please jump in Zach, if I'm saying
it incorrectly, but but this is this
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:is the wonderful thing about the youth
Nominated support team is that, is
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:the youth actually nominates people
that they trust in their network
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:and they're trained to support them.
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:And the best thing about this is
now these three to four people are
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:trained not only to support that
youth, it just flows from there, right?
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:Like they're trained to actually.
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:Be able to support other teens
in, in in their network as well
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:Dr Zach Kaminsky: no, that's exactly right
Anita, and thank you for bringing that up.
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:And what you mentioned there,
I think is really important.
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:Some of our other research shows that,
when it comes to reaching out and
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:responding to people, it, it matters.
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:If you have a connection with
them, it matters if you know them.
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:The closer they are to you, if
you've nominated them yourself
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:you're likely to get more impact.
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:From that interaction, which I
think is really one of the the
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:cruxes of why the youth nominate
support team intervention works.
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:So well, that being said, I wanna point
out, people don't have to be experts.
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:They don't have to they're not trained
to, to do a suicide intervention.
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:It's not as complicated as that.
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:It's really just understanding what might
be going on with the youth if they have
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:a particular type of mental disorder.
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:What is that?
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:Just destigmatize and understand what
what might help them as opposed to feeling
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:intimidated there's not a heavy burden.
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:But those skills are transferrable
and it does go out into the community
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:and build the sort of safety net
and expand that across Ottawa.
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:@TheDarkPollyanna: I absolutely love that.
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:Anita, just gimme one second.
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:'cause I
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:Want to say the fact that the youth
are nominating these people, you've
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:already got past the first few hurdles
of getting comfortable with someone.
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:Because as much as there is
a group in Toronto started
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:something called the Mentor.
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:And they teach people to
mentor and that's great.
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:But you're, they're coming from
quite often a stranger perspective.
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:So for someone coming out of
post-hospital stay, you don't
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:have that, that early connection.
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:You don't have a basis for the trust
that's needed and in this case you do.
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:And being able to train people well, yes,
of course that's gonna translate into be
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:able to do it for others because not only.
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:When you learn these types of skills,
not only do you take them with you,
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:you take that, I don't know, intrinsic
trust factor that can be felt by others.
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:And I think that's just incredible that
you've already that's four steps in.
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:To helping people and being able to make
that become bigger waves in the community.
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:So sorry to, to step in.
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:No, yeah, go ahead.
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:Anita Manley: Certainly, like
what I love about it is that
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:it totally empowers the youth.
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:Like the youth basically are in charge of
nominating who's going to support them.
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:And, as Dr.
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:Kaminsky said, it's about connection.
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:But I would also say that it and.
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:Please say differently if you want Dr.
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:Kaminsky, but I would also say
that it involves courage as well.
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:Like courage and connection and empowering
youth and it's just a and it works.
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:The program works.
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:Yeah, come out and, buy tickets and
enjoy music and, buyer, a auction
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:item and support Ottawa Blues for you
so that we can help save more lives.
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:Dr Zach Kaminsky: There,
there is one other thing.
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:I think is really key there.
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:And that is really that it is courage and
it's courage on the part of the youth as
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:well to reach out and share their stories.
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:A lot of the work is done by
folks at PLEO to help identify
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:who those members of the youth.
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:Nominated team will be and the
youth are very courageous to, to
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:join the intervention and share.
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:And yeah.
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:Come on out to Ottawa Blues for Youth.
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:I'll echo Anita there.
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:Anita Manley: Yeah.
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:And there is just to, to plug the
after party there is an after party.
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:It's not in the wee hours of the morning.
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:It's the next.
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:Day on Sunday, September
21st at Irene's Pub.
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:You'll be able to see Dr.
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:Kaminsky there as well, playing his
electric violin solo and doing a fireside
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:chat with myself and Diane from PLEO.
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:And yeah, there'll be some prizes
and giveaways and a lot of fun music.
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:Al Wood in the Woodsman and a
teen band called Cast Back and
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:they're absolutely fabulous.
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:Yeah, so it will be a
lot of fun there as well.
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:@TheDarkPollyanna: Can you please
explain Cleo give us the actual title
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:since Diane was unable to join us today.
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:Let's give them a little plug as well.
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:'cause I knew, I know they do great work.
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:Yeah, so go ahead Zach.
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:Dr Zach Kaminsky: Sure.
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:Yeah.
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:Yeah they're really key to this
intervention and one of the reasons
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:I wanted to bring them up a moment
ago, PLEO stands for, or at least
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:it used to stand for, that's
their official name now is PLEO.
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:Yeah.
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:But it used to stand for Parents'
Lifeline of Eastern Ontario and it's
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:full of both staff and volunteers,
many who have had lived experience.
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:In the mental health system
in Ottawa and helping navigate
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:youth and teens through it.
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:So there's a lot of knowledge and
wisdom there in the folks that are
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:helping to run the intervention.
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:And that really that really a key
to having this work really well.
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:Anita Manley: Yeah.
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:So they support the
families of, at-risk youth.
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:@TheDarkPollyanna: Perfect.
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:Perfect.
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:That's exactly what we needed to hear.
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:We tend to be a very acronym.
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:Related city here in Ottawa.
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:And people sometimes hear it and
then they don't quite catch it.
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:So we want them to be able to
know who else is involved and
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:what else is being done, which I
think is absolutely incredible.
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:Again, that's September 20th and 21st.
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:On the 21st, it's an after party
on the 20th, it's at the Gladstone.
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:Theater, which is an absolutely wonderful
space in the west end of Ottawa.
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:Ottawa Blues for youth.com.
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:It's where you're gonna go.
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:You can see right at the bottom of
the screen we've got the link for
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:you there along with the dates.
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:If you have any questions, we
will have all the information,
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:the numbers, the links, et cetera
in the show notes as per usual.
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:And barring anything else, if you
haven't found someone to talk to,
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:you can always give me a call.
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:Everybody knows that.
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:So I wanna say thank you
so much to Anita and to Dr.
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:Kaminsky for coming aboard and telling us
all about this wonderful musical event.
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:And I think there is nothing better
than empowering our youth and doing
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:things that are going to save lives.
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:That what more can you possibly want?
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:I hope.
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:The tickets are going
out the door right now.
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:I know it's going to be a sellout and
I look forward September 20th and 21st.
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:Make sure you put it on
your calendar as well.
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:Thank you so much, Anita and Dr.
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:Kaminski.
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:I'm Elaine Lindsay.
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:This is Suicide Zen of
forgiveness, and make the very
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:best of your today every day.
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:We'll see you next time.
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:Take care.
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